tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2459519255769237969.post1620085044862673334..comments2021-01-27T17:50:45.752-06:00Comments on On Three, Kids: These are not the reasons; or, did you really just say that?Goldfishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14338909594861934869noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2459519255769237969.post-22007780987585185352008-09-24T17:14:00.000-05:002008-09-24T17:14:00.000-05:00I, for one, wouldn't think any of those things. M...I, for one, wouldn't think any of those things. My sis is a stay at home mom (twin boys - argh), and I think what she manages to do every day is pretty amazing, so tack on one more child? Yeah, that is one tough job. I don't know how I would manage if I could stay home with one child let alone two or three!<BR/><BR/>I have gotten a slight reverse of your situation. More about putting my boy in daycare (people don't seem to get that he's in daycare because my husband and I work) than anything else. Like not putting him daycare is an option (and it's not). Like we put him in daycare to get rid of him (um, noooo). Like daycare is the evil of all evils (our daycare, and this is probably why it's so flipping expensive, it wonderful and I feel Mateo is getting way more out of life than he would have being stuck home with my laptop-loving butt or my husband's incessant need to clean). Like we just had him to have him, but who cares who is taking care of him and essentially raising him.<BR/><BR/>People think the way they live their life is the best way to do so, and what the heck is wrong with the dissenters who do their own thing for their own reasons?!<BR/><BR/>Ugh. As they say, walk a mile in my shoes....<BR/><BR/>As you can tell, I'm particularly perturbed at other people's attitudes towards these things...Nut Nuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07945240939799121271noreply@blogger.com